True beauty is not seen with the eyes, true beauty resonates from your soul and is projected onto the world around you

One of the reasons I think I have become so much more happy in the last year of my life is that i have changed the way i view every single person in the world. I no longer judge people by the way they look anymore.  I simply view their actions and let the results of their own doings become how I feel about that person.  I no longer have to worry if a person is going to end up being shady.  If i see them doing things against my morals i very quickly make them a person i don’t ever want to be around.  This concept works considerably well with relationships as well. If a person doesn’t bat an eye at things you would think to be unjust in a relationship then don’t just think that they will change for you because you will end up disappointed in the end.  But what I think is one of the best things about learning to see people in a new light is the love i receive.  Its been almost a year and half since i haven’t felt loved by everyone I surround myself with because I’m not trying to stick around and change someone and just letting that person go.  Then I slowly started to realize that once you love everyone they will love you back as well.  Love people for how amazing their minds and hearts are and not how hot their face is.  Your physical appearance is only temporary.  The beauty you hold inside can never fade away.  Its always been funny how people say beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but you will be liberated once you realize that you are the beholder of everything that is beautiful to you.  Always enlighten yourself and those around you of what you can really see once you see beauty all around you while your eyes are closed.

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EQUALITY: why is just separating us more?

Lately everyone has been so hyped up with all this controversy about how black lives matter or how all lives matter or even blue lives.  I personally think that humans matter and no matter what happens that’s whats important.  There’s a few things i just cant grasp about these lives matter groups.  First of all if you want equality and to be viewed the same among and treated as if your race didn’t matter why would you decide to make the name of your group something that instantly points out your race to show that your different.  This one is pretty much directed towards “Black Lives Matter.”  Why instead of creating a group where all races can celebrate life you make one speaking of equality but you guys are expecting some sort of special treatment like its owed to your race or something. I can even admit that i grew up in a family where discriminating against certain racial groups was permitted and even praised sometimes.  Now being an adult and breaking away from that influence i have learned that there are good and bad people from every racial group and that placing such harsh stereotypes on someone because of skin color alone is kind of messed up.  While i don’t view a certain race below any of us i don’t see any of them as greater either.  Everyone’s life matters to me and that’s the bottom line i don’t want to see anyone lose a life.  No one deserves to be looked down on for their race, but no one should feel like they are better because of their race either or feel entitled to some sort of special treatment or glorification.  That’s the only way we can bring equality back. Like I hate to be the one to say it but like I’m sorry what happened to your people in the past and its horrific that these things happened to multiple race groups whether it be slavery, poverty, or extreme discrimination, but you need to get over the fact that it happened, move on, and don’t expect some sort of reward or superiority that you feel entitled to now because people with the same skin color suffered like 200 years ago.  Like don’t you realize that your special treatment is that you arent slaves anymore.  The second topic i want to go over is all the violence.  WHY???  Just why must you resort to taking someones life trying to say yours matters.  Worst of it all of all the groups having members killed its the ones wearing blue. Don’t even come at me with that oh they chose to be cops and i didn’t choose to be black or Mexican or Jewish whatever but guess what i think is more important….. The fact that they did choose to be the ones with the responsibility to protect and serve our judicial system and the people in their jurisdictions.  they chose to be the ones that do put their lives in danger for you or even by you every day.  Like i said earlier yes there is good people and bad people in every group and this includes cops unfortunately, but all these police getting killed while members of the black race are saying they are going to start just killing cops isn’t convincing anyone that your lives matter at all especially when your willing to risk it trying to kill a law enforcement officer.  I at no point during this want people to think I’m trying to bash on black people or black lives matter at all, but you guys are getting out of hand blocking freeways, causing riots, and threatening other lives  is no way to get your way at all, people are going to think less of you because at least to me it shows no intelligence at all and you have no other way of communication with anyone else.  I am one of those people who no longer sees color as an issue anymore. I have fully accepted equality for all types of people and races, including homosexuals, all genders, and anything else.  Once people base their views on a persons character and not a judgement of their appearance is when equality will no longer be an issue.  YOUR LIFE IS NO MORE IMPORTANT THAN ANYONE ELSE’S. STOP THE SEGREGATION, STOP THE RACISM, BE A REASON PEOPLE ARE BROUGHT TOGETHER NOT BEING SEPARATED.  STAND UP FOR HUMANITY BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT REALLY MATTERS.

 

 

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Goals and how to complete them

July 24, 2016

How many people out there hear people talk about goals for their life, but never see anybody getting anywhere.  I think the problem people have with goals is they are always setting them, but they aren’t planning on how they are going to complete them, and they never get completed.  If you are going to set a goal for yourself, be ready to plan on completing that goal.  I have found that in my case if i physically write down my goal and my steps to completion, i will remember those steps much better, making it much easier to complete the goal.  The most important aspect of goals is making sure you have one to complete.  If you aren’t giving yourself something to accomplish then you might not ever get anywhere.  Finally make sure you give yourself guidelines to complete your goal.  Whether it be a time based goal or a reward based goal, make sure that there is something pushing you to reach the goal in a timely fashion.  So my extra credit assignment to you is to make a goal, send it to me, and i will check up with you on your goal periodically to see how you are doing.  Have a strange day.

Philosophy of the Strange.